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idk, im not rlly obssesed with romantic love these days, i like it more as a concept but, I can't help but think that every men who starts talking with me is just interested in experimenting with me because they don't know what's my gender.
I had a rlly weird and uncomfortable situation with a guy who said i was pretty, and it made me rlly happy to hear a man not being a creep, but then it started getting weird where he said he rlly liked porn and that one of the categories he rlly likes is trans soo...
It rlly hit me how many guys i'll have deal with like that, and it's just so annoying and deceiving.
i mean, i know im part of a minority group, and it's basically my whole self but at the same time im nothing of that, we just have to pointed out because if not, we are not real or mentally ill.
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rafa
chasers are the worst. i hope you find somebody who actually likes you for who you are.
i actually have a mixed opinion about it, cause i've seen some trans girls who don't mind and idk the whole thing of the dl man, is so confusing to me.
when are kinks bad? is it right that someones identity is a kink for another one?
by 6lue.cat; ; Report
ferdxhh_
creo que al dia de hoy es un problema muy propenso el echo que los hombres busquen mas la satisfacción de un deseo y las mujeres mas una conexion simbolica ,aun que desde mi perspectiva creo que las mujeres deberiamos dejar de centrar a los hombres en lo que es nustro concepto del amor como si solo ellos pudieran amarnos cuando creo que si lo vemos de otra forma lo que nos ofrecen no podria llamarse amor por lo condicional que es cuando deberia de ser libre .
no me identifico como mujer btwxd, pero si lo entiendo, solamente quisiera que nos olvidaramos de todas esas cosas extras y nos enfocaramos en los humanos, las personas, sus sentimientos, entiendo porque es tan dificil: el patriarcado, roles de genéro, capitalismo.
simplemente una puede solo soñar al final de todo.
by 6lue.cat; ; Report
seacow
It sucks :(
it does, the worst part is that i can't do anything to change it, because those people are the only ones who can do it, but won't because their whole realities are so alteredXd. anywaaysss
by 6lue.cat; ; Report
Men who see trans people like that are the ones who are mentally ill
it's never okay to dehumanize someone like that. The ones who do bad things stand out the most, but I hope you meet many people in your life who aren't disgusting and see you for who you are
by wh1msical; ; Report
Men who see trans people like that are the ones who are mentally ill
it's never okay to dehumanize someone like that. The ones who do bad things stand out the most, but I hope you meet many people in your life who aren't disgusting and see you for who you are
by wh1msical; ; Report
I can totally understand. As a trans woman myself, it’s the worst when you are just looked at as a porn status and not the woman you are. I’m lucky I’m mainly attracted to women, so I don’t really need to deal with many men.
by Lulucina; ; Report