Its very hard to stay active

Don't get me wrong i know a ton of people that use this site and know it like the back of their hand or have way more experience in using a site way better to keep track of things.

But its been a hard learning curve to use Spacehey considering the problems i heard going in knowing whats been happenin on here and then to try and be consistent with a site that doesnt really even give me a sound notif or a img notif that someone messaged or sent me a friend req to wanna talk.

Plus i dont really just accept anybody unless they meet my interests or are into the same stuff as me,so its hard to just find people of my type.

I admit im not the best at talking to new people so many thought i was just an inactive person but its geniuenly hard to focus on my life and then realize i have an account on here too trying to be friends with new ppl when the mobile app doesnt even give me notifs abt the site anymore,i geniuenly wish i could just meet most of the cool ppl i see here off the platform atp which is a shame cuz thats the main reason i went searching on spacehey forums,blogs and bulletins instead (and def browsing alot more then i like to admit) instead of something like discord or instagram that feel like just throw slop into my face.

Its not easy to really integrate a new social hub into my air when im barley socially active + have a small social battery,so when i heard the news it made me unsure on how to feel abt ppl that are new to the site being seen as "normies" or such just because this place got a active burst of dead accounts from tiktok n such popularity when im sure some people really are happy to have found spacehey then not at all.

I just hope that i can find some new people here i can talk to online as anywhere else i feel like im being recomended people i have 0 corelation with or nothing worth to look into.