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I(19F) and my bf(21M) live together at his parents house. We've been dating for over a year but we've had many of the same complications. He never listens to me, he doesn't communicate, he talks shit about me, has weird friends, and is very controlling. Anytime I bring anything up, he never actually talks but keeps saying sorry then cries, expecting me to comfort him. I'm sick of being lied to, of the broken promises, of everything. I feel crazy, I feel stuck in a cage like a zoo animal. 3 nights ago was the final blow though. For reference or wtf he has many many friends(both male and female) and knows almost everyone in town. I download discord and start making friends, he finds out by looking through my phone, then blew up. He shook me hard awake at 2:50am, it hurt and he knew it would. He yelled and degraded me, then left expecting me to follow after him. I drove around but not near him, he got upset I didn't chase after him. He then didn't let me inside the house until 6am. And no, I wasn't flirting with anyone or being flirted with. The only thing he could say was because someone said they liked the nails I did(I do press on nails as a side). Is complimenting someone's nails they did flirting now???? He's done a lot over the year but it would be too much to type.
And what's worse is that I still love him, idk if it's real love or just emotional attachment maybe both. This is TMI but we had sex last night and I feel so gross. How do I leave him, please help
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Jesse(Buy Nothing)
If you live together, make sure you have somewhere to go to, and talk with whoever you will be staying with and make a plan. It seems like he's already hurt you over the discord thing, so I would not break up in person. Especially since you are still attached to him-he could change your mind and this is NOT the guy you should be with. Wait until he is out of the house for a confirmed long amount of time. Pack your shit, leave, then text. Some may say its a shitty way to break up but your boyfriend IS a shitty person, and this is a SAFE way to break up. Block him when you feel up to it after the breakup. you will absolutely want to get back with him but it is imperitave that you DO NOT. speaking from experience.
I've already fucked up, we've talked about the whole relationship twice since the fight and he's good bruh real good. I want to then I'll think I don't want to, he's already in my head
and he cried a lot, he always does when i bring something he did up but he cried a lot
by Willow; ; Report
oh my god you need to talk to your friends about how THEY feel about this guy too. STAND UP. at least take a break. trust me. take a couple weeks to yourself okay
by Jesse(Buy Nothing); ; Report
Beansandfasolki
Idk about Ur whole living situation and where you could stay but it's just not worth staying with that asshole he's just insecure and the way he treats you is not ok in any way even just staying at a friend's house for a while would work while you get the rest of your stuff figured out( where to stay , Job, ECT)
I could live with my nana but my chances of getting a job are low, my health is really bad making me unable to
by Willow; ; Report