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I want to say I'm queer but saying it feels a little awkward. Yeah I like both men and women- honestly I don't really even care about one's gender as long as they match my 𝓯𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴 and love me and yk stuff.
But the thing is i also have never dated any gender besides a guy yet (which ended horribly). I'm in more of an experimental stage if anything but my rizz is genuinely so ass I don't think I can pull ANY gender. I also don't have much experience in relationships.
I really want to date a girl but I've never really gone for it. The only girl I've liked is in a relationship I'm so doomed. I also haven't exactly come out to anyone yet but i reallyy want to experience yuri for once in my life. Unfortunately I'm also a highschooler and im scared of getting judged since I'm already one of those 'quiet kids' in my school. Also most of the 'bisexuals' in my school just say so for social media and are Unfortunately really homophobic/ toxic.
does anyone have any tips on how I can approach girls and stuff or idk advice for me in general it would really help
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Jade!! ❀
heyy!! It's not really an advice, but I just wanted to say that it's okay to not quite know!
In my opinion, labels are here to help but you're not forced to use them to define yourself if you find it hard and/or confusing. The aim is to love whoever we want after all. Other than that, I sort of believe coming out isn't an obligation either, whether it is because someone might be scared of doing so, or just because someone can't seem to find the right time/a person they trust, after all it is fine to just be yourself and let your life speak for itself ! (I mean that's only my point of view, and i really wanted to comfort you on the idea that there is no rush to it) As you said you're in highschool right? so there's plenty of time! (i know it doesn't feel like it and it's scary lol) the most important is to keep being yourself and let it come if it comes. love, I mean. But on that side, i can't give much advice, i'm like you when it comes to dating lol. (not my thing either, but i sort of related to what you said still). So I hope you don't put too much pressure on yourself to have it figured out or anything! things happen just right and maybe you'll just have to wait a little <33 best wishes
Hiii thx for your advice sometimes theses things tend to get to my head but ya you're right it's alr to not really have a label <3
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