Has anybody asked themselves, why can´t I be like this person...
Don't lie to me either. I have always struggled to be the best version of myself, but why do I feel the need to change my habits just to be liked by other people? Why do we live in a world where it matters to impress everyone? I'm sick of playing the perfect daughter or being a good student just to impress everyone. Of course everyone wants to be the best version of themselves, but is it really worth it? I don't think so. I'm glad I discovered this website, where everyone can embrace their nerdy side and just be themselves. I'm starting to enjoy blogging, so please excuse my writing style. My point is that no one should hide or change their hobbies or interests. I hope everyone discovers someone who shares their interests. :)
Furthermore, I am discovering who I really want to be, like a personality discovery. I want to get back to the point that we live in a world of propaganda because we want to impress other people. In my opinion, everyone is boring and bland because we are forced by our environment. People in my country are especially judgemental, and I know some of you outside would say, 'Why do you care what others think of you?' I don't really care what people think of me; I just want no one to be judged on their appearance or how they express their personality and thoughts through clothes.
You're totally right. l've experienced this toxic habit of "Okay, if I can do this then I'| get a better reputation of myself." It was more about social validation. From my parents, my friends, and other people didn't quit reading mv fav mangas, watching mv fav channels on yt bc of others. However, being alone with your passions can feel lonely. I recognise the importance of "discovering" yourself but im more for creating yourself. If I can help you, typology was one of my best friends about discovering my personality. I had to reflect a lot about my behaviours, what I like, hate etc.
This is the link for the mbti, 16 different and unique personalities:
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You're totally right. l've experienced this toxic habit of "Okay, if I can do this then I'| get a better reputation of myself." It was more about social validation. From my parents, my friends, and other people didn't quit reading mv fav mangas, watching mv fav channels on yt bc of others. However, being alone with your passions can feel lonely.
I recognise the importance of "discovering" yourself but im more for creating yourself.
If I can help you, typology was one of my best friends about discovering my personality. I had to reflect a lot about my behaviours, what I like, hate etc.
This is the link for the mbti, 16 different and unique personalities:
https://www.truity.com/test/type-finder-personality-test-new
Then there is the enneagram where you understand more what you value more and scared.
https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test
But what is more important is being surrounded by people who you can trust and MAKE YOU GROW UP. Positive mindset.
Thank you for the blog!
i mean care about my friends/family circle these days, at least i try it lol
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