why is it so hard to make friends?????

its so hard making hard these days because i feel like everyone already has friend groups and if i try talking to ANY of them i get bullied to go away or i get ignored like omg especially on those discord make friends servers like im so desperate that im going to DISCORD out of all places, like omg im going to kms bc those mf are sooooooo rude like all they do is ignore new people and talk to their friends they invited to the server