I feel like I'm trans?

I like being a girly girl but I want to be a male but I'm scared?? when I was younger I was ftm and my dad forced me to stop by saying I'll always be his daughter , but I feel like a he/they? sometimes a girl and other times I wanna be a boy. but I don't want top surgery I feel like I'm not trans bcz I don't want top surgery and still feel like a girl sometimes I think I just want to be feminine but be ftm. my grandparents (whom I live with now) said if I was trans they would send me to a mental hospital ????????????? I cant tell if he was joking or what


I kinda like the name fin/finn .,. ideas??? DON'T SAY ASH </3


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PSYCHOSMILEY

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so you are just a cute lil gay !?


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hulk

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transgender people have gender dysphoria, trans males do not want to be girly girls or have breasts. its ok to be a girl.


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b33h1v3_n01s3s

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honestly, you dont need any label. as long as it makes sense to you, thats all that matters.


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~Z☢︎︎mbiǝz~

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Seems like you could be genderfluid, but there are also microlabels that could fit you.
I think the names Fin/Finn is nice!


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I think I'ma be he/they femboy :3:

by silentlover; ; Report

Quite lovely!

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Orangesfpop

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Sounds like you're non binary tbh


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I think I'ma be he/they femboy :3:

by silentlover; ; Report

ദ്ദി ≽^⎚˕⎚^≼ .ᐟ

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B_Na

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Yeah it's complicated, the best advice I can give you is to identify as you want, like try to don't overthink it, if you want answer I'm sure you will have it but it needs time so meanwhile just experiment and try different things to see what makes you feel comfortable, there's nothing bad in it. It's a shame not too many people is open about gender expression and the fact that we're not attached for life to the gender we were assigned at birth but we can change it, no matter if it varies with time and it's perfectly normal and is not something we have to be ashamed of.

The thing is, be yourself and enjoy life, your real friends and family will understand you, our at least be respectful even if they don't understand very well.


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i second this ^

by ✦ CATHEDRALS ✦; ; Report

I think I'ma be he/they femboy :3:

by silentlover; ; Report

Yayyy!! Remember you can change in the future or not and that doesn’t make U less valid, so identify yourself as what makes you feel happy ^w^

Also U don’t need to want top surgery (or any kind of surgery) to be trans that’s a personal decision no one can judge. The name Fin/Finn sounds great! :3

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