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so i'm starting this blog kinda like a journal to help provide an outlet. honestly, irl i don't have that many friends. and the few that i do have normally can't (or probably don't) want to hang out with me very often. which sucks when they tell me that bc as soon as i log into instagram, i see that they're going out with other friends. it pisses me off so bad honestly. like if you don't want to hang out with ME, just say that T-T. anywayssss..... the struggle is real with romantic relationships, or the lack thereof as well. so most of the time i'm in my room just rambling off to myself, so i figured i'd just ramble on here. maybe someone will hear it <3
struggle with friends
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mells
I relate entirely oof. I kind of make everything awkward and just haven’t met someone willing to put in the mutual effort for a relationship with me for a long time. Not even romantic ones, but platonic ones as well. I started this blog to meet new people without thinking too much of it and so far its been okay! I wish you the best, and promise for us both that it will get easier in the future
yesss!!! thats exactly why i started on here as well. like i want to go out and socialize but i feel like i look so unapproachable in public. esp when actually trying to talk to ppl because the inconsistent masking is warding people off. i even had someone tell me i was acting fake the other day, like pls im trying my best T-T but i hope it gets better for us as well, just gotta take it one step at a time i guess!
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i hear you, and definitely feel you! making friends has always been hard for me, im just an awkward little guy lol... i have plenty of friends inside my computer who i talk to every day tho, which is at least a good thing for me hehe :P
recently, ive been getting a little better at looking for communities and stuff - right now i dont have time for that bc of full-time work lol, but if you do have time on your hands, id reccommend looking for local communities (they can be about identity, or interests, or whatever) for new friends!
although i have a feeling you dont need or want advice hehe.. i guess my point is i wish you the best of luck with finding new connections, platonic or romantic! im sorry your friends dont let you or invite you to hang out with them :( those arent real friends, they dont deserve you!
i actually really appreciate your advice!! i'm kind of working part time rn because tbh the social situations are getting to be a bit much for me. i definitely want to try and start going out more especially once we move back to my hometown! ive been looking at joining a book club or maybe a yoga class, just something to get me out there yk :)
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