My love life is pure shit

Why WHY is every guy/girl so boring these days ,literally everyone i meet has the mindset "oh yeah i wanna go to parties and fuck while im drunk as hell" BORINGGGGG ,i want someone with an alternative mindset whos actually intrested in making life experiences and not just get drunk and have sex ,im bisexual but lowkey it dosent help ,i have more options but still i got no one😭 i just want a partner who loves me , whos actually is emotionally smart and that has a cool personality ,s that alot to ask?