The struggle of hating your body and craving intimacy

The crushing feeling of seeing all these stunning people online and wondering what it would be like to date someone like them but in the back of your mind you feel unworthy because "your body has too many flaws". In reality would they even care about the hair on your body or your missing tooth or some other medical conditions you may have? Who's to say those perfect people you crush on don't have any conditions of their own? Yet why do you still crucify yourself even while knowing this? Sure, maybe you can take your time and get those "flaws" fixed but how much more will you need to fix until you feel like you're perfect and equal to them? You want to throw all those worries out the window and just dive in but you can't because the shame and fear stops you, so what do you do in that case?