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i wont make it long so i wont bore you, BUT if u are reading this please take a moment cause im in a ultra difficult situation: I have a boyfriend, we've now eachother for almost 2 months and started officialy dating 2 weeks ago. he is very good and patient and i feel good around him, we are different on many things tho.
This monday i went to a concert !! (tame impala btw) and i met a guy, because he was alone and i was with my group of friends we invited him to pass the day and the concert with us. And i accidentally catched feelings for him. i feel so fucking bad. we didnt do anything, obviously, cheating its not my thing!!! but we realized the feelings were mutual. and i told him about my bf and i also told my bf about all of this to try and solve this together
i really dont know what to do, i felt a strong connection, and istant click with the other boy. I feel the temptation to risk it all even tho i dont know him that much and he doesnt live so near. I, deeply, know that i should break up with my bf but i cant its so hard. he is doing so much for me and he is doing his best to help me even tho i know it hurts him, i know he would make me happy even in the future. but i cant erease the other guy from my head, or maybe i dont want to.
PLS HELP
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coco
I am not sure abt this, but ig you should cut ties with one of them cause if you are still talking to the new guy, your bf might not show you how much he is hurt, but this thing hurts more than a breakup for him
naan05
your situation is difficult tbh, you shouldn’t break up with a great guy just because of someone you felt a little crush on for one night out, but at the same time you can’t be with someone while thinking of other person or staying just because you would feel bad to break his heart , idk what to advise you to do but what if that was a temporary crush yk they say crush is just lack of information on the person soo… I won’t advise you on cheating but what if you let it sit for a while and see if you get over it great ,if not then maybe you should break up with you current boyfriend and start talking with the new guy
What ever you choose just make sure it’s a decision made with clearity not confusion or guilt
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hey thank u girl for answering!!! well yeah i get what you mean, but it felt more than a crush, it really felt like an istant click and a very strong connection. and the fact that he felt it too and everything makes it so valuable and so hard to ignore. It's been a week and you're right, i have to wait a bit to actually understand my feelings more. but im pretty sure of what i have to do, im just very scared to do it and so scared of hurting my bf.
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