My identity is valid and I won't be discussing it. Yours is too.

I'm so sick of people asking "can I be this?" "Is this valid?" "Do I count as __ if I'm __??"

YES.

OK??

The simple answer is yes.

Sexuality is weird and so is gender.

Do what you want forever.

As long as it isn't physically or mentally harmful then it doesn't matter.

We are never gonna get anywhere in the queer community if people are gonna refuse to handle complex identities.

Labels are meant to fit you, not the other way around.

If somebody thinks that your identity is invalid because it doesn't make sense to them, fuck them, live your life.

I used to be an "am I valid?" person and I was miserable, I'm so much happier now living who I am for MY truth, and MY life.

To quote the band "Talk Talk": "It's my life, don't you forget."

I'm so sick of queer debates like this is the queer courtroom.

Queerness has no rules.

Be you.