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Im scared of a 15yo rn #embarrassing

SO long time no see spacehey.com.... im gonna make another post to the void.... like old times

This whole story is going to sound really childish because honestly it is. I'm only worried because a few people involved are very petty and might try to pull something. I have been their age before and I was evil asf. Maybe it was only a year ago (theyre turning 16, ive turned 17 recently) but like my point still stands

at the beginning of this school year, I made a friend who I will call Kit. A few weeks/months ago I made a friend who I will call Kara.

Last week I was walking to class with Kara. Kit and Kara apparently have drama between eachother that I barely knew about, I just knew that there was some drama.  I saw Kit at the end of the hall giving us a weird look and chose not to mind it.

My only class with Kit is at the end of the day. When that time came, she said "you were talking to my opp :/" and sounded very unserious Because like that sentence itself doesnt sound serious already, but I know she was at least a little bothered anyways. I ask what her problem with Kara was and her only response was "she was talking shit" and I just said "damn thats terrible" and forgot about it because that didnt explain anything to me. 

On Monday, she said she saw me talking to Kara again. I didnt have anything to say about it. Yesterday, at the start of the day, she just came out of nowhere in the halls and said "stop talking to her" and I just said "ok" and walked off because I didnt feel like having a conversation. I figured I would ask Kara for her story during lunch because I felt that Kara would have more details to share and brother she did. Like I got there at the VERY start of lunch and she was still passionately ranting about the situation as we were walking out. I found it a little difficult to follow along but basically, Kara and Kit were friends and also had this friend who I will call Cecile. Cecile kept talking trash about one of Kara's friends, Mary. Kara told Mary that someone said something about her. Later Cecile was like "I heard you were talking shit" (she wasnt). Kara kept trying to explain that she was tired of Cecile and Kit constantly being negative and judgmental about everybody they met etc and other thibgs I deem reasonable. Cecile would tune her out and give off details to Kit, which Kit blindly believed. 

According to Kara, Kit is too attached to Cecile and the only person that Kit has put before herself was Cecile. I dont disagree that Kit is a negative and judgmental person— any time I would try to talk to Kit, she would only have more drama to talk about and more about how much she hates everyone. I felt like she very likely spoke about me with others as well.

Funny enough, Kit was like right freaking there next to Kara when she was still talking about it and we were walking to class again and I was like "hey kara. your right... your right" trying to say "shes on your right" but she thought i was saying "youre right"

ANYWAY nothing really happened after that, but when it came to the class I have with Kit, she seemed mostly unbothered and spoke to me like a friend, but she kept looking behind herself to look at me? It became obvious that she was talking about me as well when she kept doing that while typing

Since then, she has turned aggressive and refuses to acknowledge me. I dont talk to her or try to approach her anymore and she now does the same for me, except she doesnt look at me and keeps slamming stuff down (threw a pen at the floor #tuff #pissedmyselfwhenthathappened #scared) 

But like. I havent gotten to the actual problem im paranoid about

She has my phone number. Last time I gave someone my number, they called copes on me and my dad wouldnt show me any grace at all for a few days 🫩 she knows of this story and that it affected me negatively. I dont know if she knows that they tracked me via just my number but uhhh, i dont know, im just worried that she'll try to pull something. Something her and her friends do whenever they have a new person of the week to hate on is try to find their social medias and dig up things from the very far past and use it to mock them. I dont have social media (that they know of) anymore because I am very privacy focused, but apparently not private enough to not give my phone number to this person. I know I have a LOT more people on my side than she has, but like... idk

I dont know what she'll make up about me and I also KNEWW ts was going to happen. Like maybe 3 or 4 weeks ago I was thinking "this girl ends up hating all of her friends eventually, im sure im next" and lo. I dont know what theyll make up about me or who theyll attempt to turn against me and I guess I dont care but theres something Im scared of right now and im just trying to figure out what it is

I know people will probably say "if you think theyre gonna harass and stalk you then tell an adult!!" But it hasnt gotten to that point yet. If i did "tell an adult" when literally nothing has happened (yet) then that would just piss them off and provoke them further.



all of this is happening because Kit & Cecile cant get over something that actually didnt even happen a while ago and I refuse to let them control me like they control other people

and other people know that this is messed up. They only have eachother and i have like 20 friends

"Shes so weird :/" the only thing weird is thjs #raitio. suck it


lets hope they dont try anything



OH OH OH AND CECILE IS 18. Im beginning to think that it is really really weird that Kit (a sophomore) is so reliant on her word and approval and also kind of think Kit is afraid of Cecile? I want to talk to her about this, like genuinely talk to her, but she wouldnt even hear me and would just take offense. I can tell by how she was acting today


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Lovez

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HOLY drama.. Wtf is with ppl.. try not to let go of past issues challenge genuinely impossible (not at u, obv)


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mari!!

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girl everyone at school has to beef with eachother T. T hopefully nothing bad happens??


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Yeah, I noticed everyone always has some problem. I guess the fact that I'm in this situation now too is just a shock to me because it's super rare for me to even be involved in drama, unless of course someone who is always in drama decides to have an issue with me next (like rn)

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