Dating in your 20s??

One thing I've noticed about getting older and having relationships in your 20s is that you have to have something of value to provide in said relationship, like money, a job, a car, education, and plans for a future. Dating in high school has little to no pressure, and the whole relationship is based on just liking the other person. Nobody expects you to have money or a car in high school, but after that, if you can't provide something of value, then it's almost like you're not worthy of being with anyone. It's not enough to just have someone's company and affection; you need value and quality of life to even be considered. On one hand, I get it and understand completely, but sometimes people are just depressed and find it hard to even find reasons to or motivation for things like that. Are those kinds of people just not worthy of love or affection? Is a nothing person just going to stay single, sad, and alone? Some people might just not be good enough for relationships cause maybe not everyone deserves a relationship, and that's just something we have to realize.