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just thoughts: comparison, constant jokes

p.s.: eng is not my 1st language, sorry for mistakes


Why isn't anyone talking about how bad their words might be. Like bro ofc it hurts me when you're talking shi about me (even if it's a joke). Slowly such "jokes" becomes something more. Like you fr start thinking that you're bad or stupid, or your nose is crooked 

Also, even more than just jokes, i hate when people start comparing you to others. "You look like her", "oh your thoughts are similar to her", "you laugh the same way like her" BITCH NO, IM NOT THEM, STOP.

I hate it with all my heart. It seems like people jusr don't see or treat you as an another human. They don't see that YOU'RE A SEPARATE PERSON. That's so freaking annoying and painful

The worst thing if your loved ones do it

Thank you for reading. I just really needed to talk about that shi. I'm so tired of that. I'd love to read some advice or opinion. Tnx yall^^


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I think it's especially bad when they are clearly making fun of you so they can feel better about themselves or superior to you. And it gets even worse if they won't stop after you repeatedly ask them to stop and clearly get upset with them about it. I think if they do these two things they probably aren't your friend, at least until they have truly appologised and bettered themself.


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