A les4les preference Is not biphobic!!!

It so annoying to see so many lesbians be accused of biphobia because they have a les4les preference. 

There is nothing wrong with wanting to date someone who genuinely understands your life experience because they lived it wich is the reason for most les4les lesbians to be les4les. 

And yes the experience that bi,pan etc. people have is different from the lesbian experience because lesbianism is pretty much the only state where you can fully Decenter man in our society. 

I have a les4les preference myself, for me this just means that I’d prefer to date another lesbian it doesn’t mean that i would reject someone because they are bi or pan. If I like someone I like them regardless of that preference.

 My personal reason to be les4les if because of my own experience with the bi women I have dated. When i broke up with my first “girlfriend” (it was more of a situationship and I was still pretty young at that time) she told me how disappointed she is because she was convinced that dating me would be easier than dating a man and that I’m just as bad and some other things similar to that. Another experience I had ,it wasn’t really a relationship because it was in the psych ward and just in general a difficult situation, she would always come into bed with me and we would cuddle and she would kiss me but simultaneously to that she would talk about how she already had slept with a woman and how much she wants to sleep with a man. Of course it is completely valid for someone who is attracted to man to want to sleep with one but telling someone who isn’t a man how much you want to sleep with one while you’re flirting with that person just really sucks. It just made me feel like a big joke. 

And like I said in the beginning I’d also just like to date someone who understands my live experience because they can relate.