relationships

Okay, can we talk abt how hard it is to keep a relationship when you gen suck at talking to others? I've been single for 4yrs now and I recently gotten into a relationship a month ago (yay!) as much as I love them I sometimes get annoyed with how much they text me. I'm extremely used to being alone, not texting anyone, staying inside, and being a chud. I wanna tell them that I like to be left alone but not all the time. But I don't want them to think I hate them or they're annoying or something like that. UGHHHH I HATE THISSSSS