nobody likes chatting anymore

you go ahead and call a friend to hang out, (which is rare to plan these days due to lack of planning, sacrificing from some stuff) and it goes like shit because you have absolutely nothing to do together. 

YOU DONT HAVE TO!

I am personally a very private person who does not like speaking about personal issues n emotions unless i am really in the mood, or i feel the person im speaking is genuinely interested, so i actually rlly cherish the moments when someone is open to chatting about ANYTHING!! whether its something we have in common or not, I do want to hear what YOU have to say about this random topic we settled on. 

I feel people just overthink how to hold a conversation. I am the most shy person out there, but I WILL carry out a conversation if you help out a little. because there is no way all of your friends share a common point, (ofc if they do you must be lucky) but there should be something that is helpful for yall to keep in touch, and that has got to be communication man.