Why do we romanticize sadness?

i mean it's not just that we "like" to be sad and ,it's more interesting than that.

sadness make thing's feel more real,let me explain:when we are happy everything seems lighter, but when we are sad everything is more intense,get it?

its like i can indesrtand myself better,as if thing had more meaning! yk our brain associate depth with sadness?

and even some artist like Billie Eilish or Lana Del Rey don't just talk about sandess,they make it look beautiful,with their lyrics,and their music videos

sadness sometimes make u feel less alone: i mean when u're sad and go ono tik tok,and maybe see a video similar to your situation,u can think " ok im not the only one" "great someone can undesrtand me" or something like that.. u find like some sort of comfrot in it

for some it becomes part of their swag,like the taste in jusic,the clothes,the way of express oneself.

BUT WAIT OFC THERE'S A REAL DIFFERENCE BETWEEN "AESTHETIC SADNESS" AND FEELING RLLY BAD

when the first can seem rlly deep,beautiful ecc.. the second no,and it must be taken seriously.

but what is the difference between real sadness and faking it? i think i'll make a post bout that!

bye bye let me know what y'all think!