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is there a point to spacehey anymore

(last rant blog(?) for now because I don't want my cortisol to spike so hard again)

something about this app man, it's become degraded perhaps even past the point of instagram and tiktok's sludge and there's just SOMETHING about this app that spikes my cortisol, doesn't seem like i have much in common with really most people here one bit.

and it seems like it's just the same thing as everywhere else now, nothing special, so why even bother with it then, you know?

to me it seems like this app is a failure of an "experiment" to make an "alt messaging app" but in reality just got flooded with randos with no cohesion or standards, which makes it just instagram battleground #24585771662685

not to mention it seems like a constant battle for attention over who has the most orbiters in their dms or pretty decorations in their friends list.ย 

as far as i can see, it's just colonized by the GRAM... like everywhere else, and the same culture that exists on there, of toxicity, ragebaiting, and attention seeking.



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Mustard windigo

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Get your irl friends to join that should help


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Mustard windigo

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Get your irl friends to join that should help


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Mustard windigo

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Get your irl friends to join that should help


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XB3AST3D_K1TTYX

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i want to use spacehey as a main social media and stop using apps like tiktok, instagram, snapchat, etc, but nobody is active i have 50 or so friends and i dont have any messages i dont see bulletins i wish there was a place to go where its just like the old web.


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Index

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>just colonized by the GRAM

it's just gen z/alpha. people just are like that.

it was an experiment. that happened to get popular. you're not getting the old web back, however there still are some decent and interesting people on here.


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Juan

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For freaking reals
No one interacts on here they just make their profiles which is cool but spacehey is dead af.


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Unrelated but I LOVE your pfp!! I just started getting into Ismfof and I LOVE them!!

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Da big GRAM ๐Ÿ‘€


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Kara † Kadavera

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I'm selective about who I add, and I don't feel this way, because I've accumulated a lot of good friends over the years


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xxJECKAxx

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Of course there is a point ! You guys have to stop thinking like that, the website is still kinda knew and yeah maybe a lot of people are shitposting but we have to change that yourselves, if everyone just leave after waiting for others to create something then yes, there will be no point. I'm kinda knew and just talk about things that you like lol.


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i suppose the most negative and polarizing content is peddled towards me after all, due to the algorithms

by Isaac; ; Report

Bones

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Iโ€™ve had pretty good experiences with this site and Iโ€™ve met some cool people here, I mostly try to avoid a lot of the drama taking up the top blogs and just stick to reading bulletins/blogs made by friends.


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That's how it is with me. I'm mostly unaware of most of the drama going on cause I'm only focused on my friend's bulletins and blogs.

by SylviiR♥SE; ; Report

yep, the way the site was intended to be used

by Index; ; Report

WetSock

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You just gotta find a bunch of cool logs to subscribe to. Recents are bound to be full of spam of kids just posting "hi" or something stupid, popular blogs a lot of times are people arguing or complaining. I'm lucky to have made some friends here who post really good blogs ยฏ\_(ใƒ„)_/ยฏ


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witchy woman

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how long have you been on spacehey? to me, everything seems ok, though i haven't been on here every long. ^^; sorry its not to your standard. maybe ur a little chronically online?


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could be that the toxic people just speak the loudest

by Isaac; ; Report

true

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micika

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Idk, from my pov of the app (and website) its pretty fine โ€” thats why i specifically watch out who i befriend and what blogs i read. Also off topic but i like ur hair


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Halo3Gamer7

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Thatโ€™s pretty accurate lmao I also feel a lot of the instagram people have taken over and that there are so many clones on this webpage a lot of slop on this place lmao!


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piss dude -.-

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i think ur just mad ppl dont share all ur opinions


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i mean this genuinly btw not as a jab. i think u need to relax a little and u will enjoy this place a little more. you dont need to agree with evreyone to still get along, and sum of the best friendships r built on big diffrences. cuz that means u respect eachother. so ya. learn to be more accepting, dont let the ragebaiters get to u (just ignore them man, u know they only do it for the attention), youll have more fun here

by piss dude -.-; ; Report

i fully agree on this, also to add that all that "toxicity" and stuff you see it the most because you are looking for it and interacting with it, i personally don't see it at all... just like once in a blue moon, because i interact with the people i actually care for and the spaces that are actually meaningful to me, not just "top blogs" or "most popular" sections, i don't care one bit about popularity slop. I've been in the platform for 3 years! its all about who YOU choose to interact and surround yourself with!! its almost always a YOU problem!!!

by ๐„žโจพ๐“ขึดเป‹ Caroh ๐Ÿฎ; ; Report

ppl be treating this like its twitter and complain that ppl be treating this like twitter smh

by ๐„žโจพ๐“ขึดเป‹ Caroh ๐Ÿฎ; ; Report

genuinely curious: what do you mean by that- 'using the site as twitter'? is it short blogs / arguments?

by Index; ; Report

leaving bad comments at random an looking for starting arguments with other users instead of just closing the tab!

by ๐„žโจพ๐“ขึดเป‹ Caroh ๐Ÿฎ; ; Report

idk man, i still don't think it's an excuse for such large numbers of people to just be cruel and cynical

by Isaac; ; Report

>>Caroh i see, thanks. personally i believe that arguing is okay because this is a 'social' site after all. but not quite in the way of harassment (like personal attacks).

by Index; ; Report