Having a partner

I find it so fascinating about having someone in your life you be calling them as your partner. I'm not talking about a situation-ship, a hookup, a friend-with-benefit partner people be having or messing around with these days, these years. I'm emphasizing having a partner that you chose to have, that they chose to have you, through sickness and health, through life and after.

Media has made relationships sound like a chore, like a bunch of theories that is needed to be broken down into categories I can't even remember their names from how ridiculous it was stated, when it's all about having a sense of connection when having deep conversations, a sense of shelter when walking down the streets together, a sense of harmony when hugging each other for the first time.

Having a partner doesn't simply mean a presence. It symbolizes rapport, intimacy, a strong bond that could not be broken by some delusional "30-day theory". Real partners would naturally point at things that the other like, real partners would naturally hold onto each other in their breaking points of life, real partners would do anything naturally for their partner it could so beautifully reach to an intuition of "I'm a natural human being who loves their partner. Let's remind them of me and make them happy today".

It's in their brain, to cherish and be cherished back. To be loved and loved back. To sacrifice and be sacrificed back. It's the playful back and forth that makes the relationship exciting, makes it alive. It's never, to "we're not serious" and be "i know" back. It lacks of respect, to your brain and heart before your said temporary partner that you caught feelings to before they basically stated you as a stranger.

In short, having a partner is to form a close, mutual, harmonious relationship coming from both individuals. I really hope this type long-term reaches to every kind-hearted person who are willing to have a serious relationship. It's even embarrassing that I had highlight the word "serious" for relationship when it's the whole point of building.. a relationship.