For many people, their biggest comfort can be music. Music is normally also a big comfort for me.
But now suddenly every song reminds me of moments I had with that person, and all the lyrics weirdly suit the situation I'm in. Constantly being reminded of what you want to forget won't heal anything.
So no, don't stop listening to music.
Stop listening to music in a language that you can understand!
You can still enjoy music! This will turn your brain off and your thoughts won't automatically think about that person, because you'll just enjoy the vocals and instrumental instead of absentmindedly going to them in your mind.
Here are my recommendations! (With the language behind it, cause maybe you do speak that language and so it won't help lol):
Miranda! (Spanish)
Glup! (Spanish)
IOWA (Russian)
MaNga (Turkish)
Athena (Turkish)
Páll Óskar (Icelandic)
Puya (Romanian)
Erika Vikman (Finnish)
Tokio Hotel (German)
Les Rita Mitsouko (French)
Os Mutantes (Portuguese, but they sing in many different languages)
If you have music recommendations for me, in a language that isn't English or Dutch, let me know! :D
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Alpha
Seo Taiji is a Korean nu metal artist I listen to, that's pretty much the only one I really listen to atm that's not in english
I love numetal! Thank you for the recommendation ^_^
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aut0Lumi15
Honestly, so true! :) For me it's once i stopped even paying attention to the lyrics I started enjoying the music itself and it became so much better!! It's almost the same concept. :"
Yess that can also help alot! I sadly do have a hard time trying not to listen to what is being said in a song :'), lyrics are my downfall TwT thank you for your comment :3
by maje; ; Report
As time passes and you can finally enjoy the music you once loved again, that's how you know you're slowly becoming free again. I hope you reach it soon :D <3
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