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i'm feel lonely so i thought not for the first time it might be interesting and fulfilling having some intercourse with a sex worker. for context i am 18. i'm pretty sure i'm not gonna do it 'cause i'm lonely but not depressed, right?, and also i don't wanna lose virginity the typical boring teenage middle-class way
getting a prostitute
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Alex
I don't think you want to be intimate with someone you know wouldn't be doing this if money weren't involved.
I don't know what's going on in your life that made you think this is a possibility and not morally questionable (at the very least), but reconsider.
I'm glad to see you're not going to do it. Stick to it; it's a decision you can't undo, ever. Keep that in mind.
☩ deusvult ☩
dont do it, it will ruin your life
do you have a personal experience on a theme of my story?
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gzbp_1600
Bro I don't know what or who in your life influenced you to ever consider thinking this as an option, ig whether you do it or not is your choice. I personally see the idea of virginity as a societal concept, you don't lose nor gain anything after having sex imo. And that's also why I see a problem w you thinking about being with a hooker. Like just wait bro do it with someone you like, even if it turns out anti climatic, at least you'll have experienced it w someone on the same boat as you and you'll learn to do better together or idk I might be biased. Anyways don't hook up with a prostitute.
Elieatsglass
There's this obvious stigma around sexuality in... basically anywhere. Being lonely in your youth highkey really fucking sucks. Unfortunately being or feeling lonely is natural.
I'm like a fucking turbo virgin 3 so I can't comment on firsthand experience. But sex is hormonal and a mixed bag of feelings. It won't always 100% guarented feel amazing during and /or afterwards. If you're looking for purely an outlet for pleasure then go ahead. It's not like a crime to have normal homan feelings. In that case it's a great option for you.
But because you mentioning being lonely in the literal first sentence. If you would potentially pay a sexworker in order to feel less lonely, then, just don't. You (probably) wouldn't know the person you are sleeping with, nor are prostitutes yk required to provide any closeness beyond sex. It's a sex workers job in that case, not something they might want enthusiastically. You might feel great in the moment but afterwards? Plus if you don't actually have a significant other/ someone to have a close/intimate relationship with, potentially paying for sex to feel something akin to that more than once kinda sounds like it sucks.
If you do end up getting a prostitute, depending on where you live the job might not even be legal or regulated. Especially in places like there sex workers are treated horribly. Treat any individual you have intercourse with be it payed or not.
Realistically speaking, you are not doomed. Being lonely and inexperienced now doesn't mean you'll be for life. And even if you dont need sex to feel fulfilled. Good luck dude, hang out with friends. Or invest in some hobbies if you don't have any. >>
Alex
Interesting to have a sexual intercourse with a prostitute who is possibly not doing this with her own free will?
Lose virginity that way isn´t exciting it´s sad.
You´re 18. Nothing wrong with being a virgin.
AmbitiousCat
nahhh let your first time be special man
dont lose your v card to a hooker
yeah i know it's too simple. but sometimes simple is needed too. it's hard. that's what she said.
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Keerfloey
WHAAT
I mean you do you it's your problem idk brah
you seem shocked.
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I'm flabbergasted (O_o)
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