Thoughts. [warning: sensitive topics]

This is my opinion and my experience so dont go harrass anyone.

I have been on SpaceHey for 2 months and i must admit i am pretty active. I read lots of bulltetins but more often i perfer the blogs. Ive seen ppl talk about their feelings and stuff to let go of their pent up emotions and have deep convos in the comments on how to help them. I really love how children are welcomed and understood here [makes me wish i wouldve used this website when i was younger] but i see also some people just bully them for it?? like??? i understand if you worry cuz of preds and stuff but telling them to stop whining about it online and to keep it on TikTok is like the worst thing you can say to a kid who SH or overall have issues. I remember when i was a kid , i didnt have friends, i couldnt talk to anyone about my problems. Ofc i wouldnt go on Tiktok to whine just for my Dad to see it. I talked about it to strangers on discord. And that was really bad. I think some of yall should get a hold of yourselves and act like a fvcking adult. 

No,  bullying children for sharing how they got abused is not a fvcking normal thing. I think those ppl who do, should get their sh!t together cuz this is not okay.

If you ask yourself "what could we do instead to stop them from oversharing personal information and get targetted by adults who want to do horrible things to them (aka preds)" then im for one glad you think logically, but heres what you could do instead!!:

If a Kid (12-16) is talking about how they got abused and did SH or they are bullied and did SH you could comment nicely how you understand their situation and let them know that they are not alone because it reassures them to let them understand that its a safespace and you are no threat. You can then kindly explain about how there are some preds on the website and that they shouldnt share private information, to keep them safe. 

Im sure there is some groups here or people who would love to talk to eachother about their problems so you also could mention that.

Like i said , be kind to the kids on this website, cuz what ive seen so far genuinely breaks my heart.

Thank you for reading.