Idk if anyone feels the same? like i have a friend group and we get along and know each other for some years now but like, outside of uni we never talk, never hang out and we don't really have anything in common. I don't notice it that much through the year bc we see each other almost every day bc of classes but once vacation starts it's 3 months where we don't talk at all. It sucks, especially now that i have a normal friend group for the first time in my life.
I've talked about this with some of them, like are we gonna still be friends once we graduate, and we all honestly think that no, not because we'll start to hate each other or something like that but because we won't try to. And we do feel bad about it but like don't know what to do abt it.
Everytime we try to hang out one of us can't or cancels at last minute and that just makes everyone else not want to go and so nothing happens, this happened so much last year we kinda just stopped trying, i can't remember how many times i just ended up crying abt it because i really want to spend time with them.
Also i think this hits me especially hard because every single one of them have partners and other friends to hang out with but I'm just there, i have no one else but them and it sucks, i just don't know how to make more friends.
We graduate in 2 years, i hope i can do something about it also pic of my joke bear bc i love him ↓
Maybe you can just hangout with your friends individually.
I'm in a tight knit friend group and we don't often see each other outside of school. But what we do is that we hangout with each other, but separately. Let's say, I'll go over to friend A's house on the weekend, hang outside with friend B on a school night and go for a shopping trip after school with friend C (all on different days, but you get it).
The activities you'll do with your friends can be different from what me and my friends do, but genuinely the best way to have fun with friends outside of school is going out with them separately. Not because one or the other is a better friend, but because everyone's schedules don't align for everyone to hangout at the same time.
I totally get it, i avoid hanging 1:1 to not make my other friends feel excluded but like it's so true that no one always has the same time to hang out, Thank u ^^
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also pic of my joke bear bc i love him ↓
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PesteringClown
Agreed
Dayuv
Maybe you can just hangout with your friends individually.
I'm in a tight knit friend group and we don't often see each other outside of school. But what we do is that we hangout with each other, but separately. Let's say, I'll go over to friend A's house on the weekend, hang outside with friend B on a school night and go for a shopping trip after school with friend C (all on different days, but you get it).
The activities you'll do with your friends can be different from what me and my friends do, but genuinely the best way to have fun with friends outside of school is going out with them separately. Not because one or the other is a better friend, but because everyone's schedules don't align for everyone to hangout at the same time.
I totally get it, i avoid hanging 1:1 to not make my other friends feel excluded but like it's so true that no one always has the same time to hang out, Thank u ^^
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