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ok random but i felt the urge to speak ab this lol
now, romance is a whole array of things
it could be love, lust, desire, etc.
but personally, i just wanted to voice my thoughts on how i view the way other people speak and act about this topic
because honestly it bothers me
i know not everyone will agree with me but i feel like people are losing the plot when it comes to love and relationships
like, i feel like nowadays all everybody wants is a “freaky” kind of relationship
one where all you do is flirt, talk about how much you “want” each other, etc.
now i’m not saying that doesn’t come with relationships or isn’t allowed
but i’m specifically referring to relationships where that’s the only thing that happens or is ever said or used to bond with one another
what happened to real connection
a relationship where you’re not only a gf/bf but a best friend too
one where you can talk to them as if they’re another you
a safe space and somebody to lean on but not depend on
idk if im gonna keep this blog up but i just wanted to put this out there ヽ(´ー｀)
03/04/26 ☆
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ℜ𝔞𝔮𝔲𝔢𝔩
No this is so real, I recently got out of a lustful relationship and throughout it i felt disgusting because my ex only viewed me for my body and not my character, whereas i did the opposite
like there needs to be a balance between sexual pleasure and romance in a relationship (if y’all are even into sex that is, if not it has to be purely romantic)
I understand being freaky with your partner once in a while but if sexual stuff becomes the ONLY aspect of your relationship, like that is just weird
Beep-Beep
The idea of being in a relationship like that scares me. Like I want to be able to be vulnerable and to be myself with my partner without worrying that all they're thinking about is my body.
I just want to be in sappy romantic relationship where we aren't freaky every time we see each other
literallyy omg
by roki ☆; ; Report
affinityspace
i havent dated a lot but each time sexual attraction or lusting was a thing it made me insanely uncomfortable. like the feeling of trying to roll your eyes too far. uncomfortable and sometimes painful
forreal it’s so uncomfy and sometimes i feel trapped because i don’t want to offend the person
by roki ☆; ; Report
⸝⸝ ꒰ ペラップ 🦜 ⁞ ˎˊ˗
THIS IS SO REAL DUDE NOT EVEN CRAZY TO SAY
in my past relationships, being lusted over made me feel so unlovable because i felt like maybe my looks are okay but my personality is just nothing and like it made me lose hope in love
bc wdym youre with someone just because you want them for your own pleasure
i love being with my current partner because hes like insanely afraid to make me uncomfortable and he always asks before doing anything
its like having a best friend that i can kiss
we play games tg and we do story time where he yaps to me and shares his screen to draw on a notes app while telling the story
and he always listens to me yap and actually remembers stuff and pays attention
he never asks me for anything weird and like
he never calls me sexy or hot, he says that my laugh is cute and that im pretty
i feel like i finally met someone that is teaching me what real love is like
and i think that everybody deserves something like this
lust is disgusting
exactly like why do weird and lustful ppl exist
by roki ☆; ; Report
⊹₊⟡⋆ gabi˚₊‧໒꒱ ‧₊˚
yes dude omg i completely agree
i’ve never dated anyone but i want a relationship where my partner is like a best friend
exactly!!!!! i wanna be super besties with my significant other
by roki ☆; ; Report
li doesn’t count he’s such a cornball
by ⊹₊⟡⋆ gabi˚₊‧໒꒱ ‧₊˚; ; Report
yeahhhh he’s not my besti
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