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personal yapping | I like having not much socials

 

Haii it's me jiji!!!! (✿◕‿◕✿)
Today I wanted to yap abt why like... current socials sucks X( 
It's also personal cus I wanted to talk abt my POV NVM YALL GET ME 
For me, I deleted ALL of them, I used to have a Twitter, Newgrounds, an Instagram art acc,a Discord and a TikTok.... Yeah it's a lot, and I agree with you! So I decided at the age of 17 to delete ALL of them.
 The only socials that I'm rlly active now is Spacehey, my own website and Tumblr (I love blogging!!). 
I also got a TH but idk it's counting cus it's just for OC storage and an Instagram (IRL acc) to connect with my friends and classmates. But I lowkey never get on it
 Cus I think that they look like the same.... and it's getting boring and all. Like, tbh also it's like the "mental charge" to go to all the socials cus FOMO I guess...? IDK how to explain but like, having all those socials looked useless to me and it was pointless to me. Like, they are just wasting time so I was like "hey so maybe we should delete this"!. And also, they get BORING real quick. idk but the more I stay there, the more bored I wanted to leave. That's what happened with me and Newgrounds.... Like it's rlly different from the socials I mentioned but idk, I got bored on there real quick so I deleted it  7 months later , and wanted to restrict my social circles by have few socials so I can interact with moots and people.

Ofc it's kinda awkward when like someone ask "do u have Tiktok" "Do u have twt" or "Do you have Discord" and you say no... but like it's kinda fine tbh cus I have more fun doing other things than going on socials like discovering hobbies : I just discovered that I have a hobby for sewing, piano and baking. Ofc I have other hobbies like drawing, coding and jewelery making but having other hobbies makes me happy! :D 



Anyway, thanks to reading to me, have a great day!!!!!! :)



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St4rG!rl

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How did u get rid of that feeling of missing out tho? bcz i would love to quit socials but I love knowing whats going on


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tbh at first I was missing it, but then I said "nah it's not really important, don't go back".And I just close my PC and do my other hobbies. It's hard at first, but after, you don't care about them :)

by ⤷ ゛jiji ˎˊ˗; ; Report

For me it was realizing that I didn't really miss out on all that much. Seeing mutuals (friends or not) made me compare myself in a negative light rather than I was actively missing out. Bcs people who really are my friends and know I would enjoy a certain hangout/party would go out of their way to reach out. And when it comes to memes. All you need is 15mins to an hour tops and you're caught up with ALL that you have missed.
The only thing I haven't figured out how to be up to date on is geopolitics. Cuz I can't trust my governemnt's TV or newspaper. I can however trust my friends' reposts

by Benn1ss0; ; Report

I get it what u sayin. tbh I just got rid of friends that I didn't talked much or didn't cared at all. I just talk to close friends either here or Yahoo messenger so we in a more secluded place, cus I realised a lot of friends were'nt rlly my friends ^^

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