help with my friend, suicide related topics

so this is very sudden but a friend I talk to every now and then to just talk change their name and bio on discord, the name is now "died" and the bio is "got killed" and they aren't online at all. They messaged me "maybe this msg last one on my life thnk u and lvya depression killed me I'm gonna fly after 6 days hate this life bye love ya !!" and they just messaged back "can't anymore" I don't know what to do, we don't know each other irl I don't know any of their friends I don't know what to do


he has messaged me back and Its very few words it's a little hard to understand, he said he's gonna delete all apps and accounts I don't know what to do.


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Myl

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I know I don't know either of them, but I really recommend you tell your parents so you can go see him. You said you two know each other in person, which is good. Maybe you could also encourage him to call you regularly to check on him and make sure he doesn't leave for too long. I don't know if it's too late or not, but honestly, before facing this alone, it's better to talk to an adult who can guide you. I don't know if this will help, but another thing I recommend, based on my experience, was making phone calls. I wish that everything is well and that your friend gets better


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I said I didn't know him in real life, he lives really far from me. But he stopped replying, but he also is never online anyways as he doesn't like social media or anything anymore, but I did message him a couple extra times just to make sure he saw it and knows I'm here for him.

by 🧪/K3_D0D0_b1rd\🥼; ; Report

Oh, okay, sorry for not understanding what you wrote. I'm not good at English, but I'm really sorry about your situation. I know it must be very anxious that he doesn't talk much. There aren't many solutions for a friend so far away. Maybe what you did, like telling him you're there for him and waiting for him to talk to you, will work. In the meantime, try to distract yourself by watching something on YouTube or doing something offline.

by Myl; ; Report

It's okay! And yeah, there really isn't much I can do. I am trying to distract myself for now, and I'm just hoping he messages eventually.

by 🧪/K3_D0D0_b1rd\🥼; ; Report

It's okay! And yeah, there really isn't much I can do. I am trying to distract myself for now, and I'm just hoping he messages eventually.

by 🧪/K3_D0D0_b1rd\🥼; ; Report

I hope he gets better and can take his mind off things by talking to you. Whatever happens, remember, you do what you can and don't blame yourself if you can't do more.

by Myl; ; Report

Okay, thank you so much

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