finally over the guy i mentioned last time (good riddance), we ended up in some kind of weird situationship and then just ended it because it wasnt going to work, but lwk the things he said in that time rly helped me get over him lmao (this was a while ago btw)
update though!
i moved to a new school and for a few months like before school started ive found this guy kinda fine and i successfully pulled, success?? we're gonna go out soon but we've been talking for about 3 weeks ish and i cant tell if hes love bombing like hes going kind of quick but idk what to tell him :( hes a rly nice guy and i genuinely like him but i just dont want to date this quickly ykwim like im not the type of person to jump into a relationship but idrk how to bring this up.
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Avangeline
It’s totally normal to feel a bit overwhelmed if he’s moving at warp speed! Just be straight up with him next time you’re chatting. You can say something like: “Hey, I’m really vibing with you, but I’m someone who likes to take things slow and not rush into anything too fast. I’d love to just keep hanging out and get to know each other without any pressure.” If he’s actually a catch, he’ll be totally fine with setting a pace that makes you feel comfortable. YOLO, and have a cool day yo!!!
thats rly helpful ill try that tysm!
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yw! happy days!
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