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how do u even start to get invited to functions.. 

parent's think ppl will randomly call u to bad parties and stuff but gosh I'm just invited depending on my luck, this makes me feel not fun at all am I that boring 

I just realized I can write in purple that's so cute 

but like I've always seen others hanging out and posting stories looking so happy without me didn't u consider inviting me? even if they say they consider me a close friend, I can't trust these

last year I went to 2 birthdays and a Halloween party, but the girl who invited me to the party looked so unsure before asking me, like she was thinking and wondering hard before speaking

I still didn't go out this year and I don't think It's happening any soon, idk how to feel about this 



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Folgers™

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I can't really give any advice on getting invited out, but I can tell you that big parties are mostly meant to celebrate a massive event or something the most common party I can see being thrown is ,idk a sports party. Idk are you looking for more of a group outing or a party?


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I meant hanging out and stuff, I'm not a fan of big parties

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pesterchoom

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I don't know if this is a genuine question or a vent but you just have to find your group. I know that shit is cliche, but I had the same issue. I'm being so deadass, just find people who like you. Sometimes you have to sacrifice a little "you" to find people tho


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me personally wouldn't hand around people who wouldn't like me at 100% but idk im on spacehey giving shabby life advice

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But then again I doubt you've ever met someone at THEIR 100%. everyone hides a part of themself to become more likeable. I think I hide the least amount of myself in public, and people just fw me. I hide the parts I'd think twice about showing people. Like I'm HIGHKEY a furry, i have a fursona and everything, but I wouldn't show anyone lol

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it's more like a vent honestly, just wishing my presence would be more appreciated. the hard part is finding ppl who actually get along with me, I'm a bit shy, avoidant tendencies and generally require more reassurance than others
but I'd still rather stay home than hang out with people who only like me for a fake persona I created and not for who I am, we're not all meant to be loved and I know that

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