Platonic love is so underrated and its gonna be the downfall of romance

Before i start my rant i wanna apoligise for my spelling and grammer, english isint my first language and speling has allways been a weekpoint of mine. Alongside that i allsow wanna apoligise for how unorganised this will be bc ill just be ranting, so i might reaoet things or miss sum i wanna say.

I feel like people only talk ab romantic love and it feels like freands arent as valued as partners. I feel like that might stem from the fact that for most people freands are asumed- theyve allways had them and can easly talk whit others and make more, so they dont even realise that its posible to not have any. A partner tho? A lover is harder to get, and yea the relaishonship means more, but that dosent change the fac you can do all the same things you do whit your patner whit your freands. Evry acion you take only means as much as you want it to. Thats why people can be freands w benifits, wich yea i guess dose get hated on sometimes, but even then hookup culture is masive and the hole point of a hookups is that its meaningless so my point still stands. So whats stoping you from doing the cute couply things whit your freands? 

Go kiss your freands on the cheek, or the lips if you want, hell make out w em if youre both down for it, go hold hands w your freands, go cuddle w your freands, go on all the cute dates whit your freands!!!! I mean why not? Whats stoping you? Scared ppl will judge? Noone cares about you, im sorry but its true, strangers will forget whitin seconds of seeing you, even those judging so go have fun! Scared you might fall for them? Well, yea thats how relaishonships should start(imo at least). 

I feel like the reason soo many relaishionships fail is bc atp ppl are dating just to be in a relashonship, not  because theyre acc inlove whit the person theyr w. Or thats at least how it starts, but most realaishionships dont flourish like that. Thats y ppl are complaining ab situasionships and whatever else. You wont find love by looking  for it, but eventualy love will find you. And i feel like if people started valiuing theyr freands more, and just tried to befreand ppl or sum then relaishonships would be a lot simpler.

Thanks for reading and id love to hear other opinions on this:)