Lately I feel like my only friends keep lowkey excluding me from stuff. Sometimes they don’t even invite me.
Like today, they called me to play, we stayed like an hour in call, and then they just left to play something else without even asking if I wanted to join. The game was mushYo on Roblox (basically a game where you just chat with random people).
And idk… if it happened once in a while I wouldn’t care that much. But this has been happening almost every day.
I’m kinda antisocial and I suck at making new friends, so it’s either this or being alone. And that’s what makes it worse.
I’ve been feeling drained lately. Like… I don’t even feel like turning on my PC anymore.
I know I’m not the coolest guy or whatever, but I really value my friendships. I just like having someone to chill with and talk about random stuff, you know?
Anyway… that’s it I guess.
Oh and yeah, this week I’m getting surgery to remove my two upper wisdom teeth so I can get braces. The dentist also told me I need to take out my angel fangs ‘cause they didn’t heal properly :(
Hope everything goes okay.
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Someone
Lowkey thought you were one of my friends (Sorry twin T-T)
But trust you're not bad you just don't have the right friends
Feel free to add me if you want!
javi 🐾
So you have 3 options:
You confront them, you find other friends, or you let things stay the same.
In my opinion, if you really care about them, talk to them about what’s going on.
But for me, the best option is that you start changing friends and make some new ones on Roblox or another social network. Look for people who are compatible with you and who don’t make you feel the way you described.
Because honestly, what are friends for? To have a good time not to give you bad moments.
♥ kitty ♥
heello stranger, I too am antisocial and have always struggled with making (and keeping -m-') friends, so i get how you feel. What I find is the best thing to do in this situation is simply talk it out with them and tell your friends how you feel. A lot of the time when I felt excluded it was actually because I was isolating myself- not saying you do that! but humans are weird and bad at communicating so just try reaching out n being like, hey guys! idk if you did this on purpose but I was kinda sad when you did (blank) without me... and depending on their reaction it will show if they are good friends! best of luck to you ╰( ̄ω ̄o)
ThePinksSigma
girly or brodie you don't need those friends fr but i not saying to just cut all ties with them cause what if not asking if you want to join them was just an accident
but girly or brodie if you KNOW it was on purpose and they hate you just cut all ties
they can use you and stuff vro
maybe it was just a mistake tho but if YOU KNOW KNOW that they gossip behind yo back then cut all ties or actually just dont talk to them, only really talk to them if THEY WANT to talk to you. (cutting all ties might make the gossip situation worse if they actually hate you so i would reccomend only talking to them when they talk to you,)
but at the end brodie i dont know the best choice for you but it okay to have fake friends!! i do to
remember they could have just not asked you if you wanted to join on accident
Anyways i hope you get your wisdom teeth taken out safely!!
yeah maybe you’re right
i don’t really know if it’s on purpose or not
it just happens a lot and it makes me feel tired
thank you tho, i appreciate it
and yeah i hope the surgery goes well
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