When someone else gets flamed for having a similar opinion I had too.

21st Feb, 2026

There have been multiple instances, where I have an opinion I havent voiced yet and someone else does it before me. And then the aftermath makes me glad I had stayed silent.

Like in class someone has a same doubt i did and they just happen to ask first cause I get super conscious and dont ask. Then they get scolded by teacher. 

Or sometimes I see some similar blog entries, which basically I sorta agree with, or feel the same way as them. But they the person gets slimed in the comments. If its something very crazy i cant even comment to show my agreement with the blog post. Something like this happened earlier and its what made me write this post tbh.

Or just in a group setting, someone else happens to say something just before i was about to say it and gets laughed at. 

Theres been a handful of situations like this, but I cant remember them now. Not to mention I have always struggled with interacting irl. I either talk too much and get hyperactive, struggle understanding social cues, or my rbf makes situations awkward for people. Spacehey is literally the first time I am trying to make online friends. And i realised even its not easy online. I overthink and over analyse everything. 

All this just made me realise over the years to keep my thoughts to myself. And only if you think the person you are talking to is close to you and might understand you or listen, then express it. I just wish I had a close friend, or a boyfriend, or just any close bond with some where I could yap about anything.