So this has been on my mind for aw while now, I don’t know if I’m actually “attracted” to men.
Like I can tell if a man is objectively attractive or not ig . But I never swoon, and idk if that’s because my standards for men are high(?).I don’t really have a preference when it comes to people but I guess when it comes to men I like it when they have more feminine features, I don’t mind masculine ones like some are hot but I love it when they are on the softer side. And with women like I said I find almost all of em attractive (esp when they’re older 🫦🫠)
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miomao
to be honest its really difficult to say if someone is a lesbian/gay or bi. you need to imagine first if you would even date someone of a certain gender and if you would feel comfortable. i also think that bi people who have higher standards from men doesnt really have them higher - its just a regular woman is much better than a regular man. im a man and its exacly how i feel, i also thought i had higher standards for men but it turned out to be false, an average man i see on the street doesnt take care of himself like an average woman do - if i saw a woman not taking care of herself or behaving like some men do i wouldnt be attracted to her too. thats why many people prefer feminine men because they usually take better care of themselves than masculine men. i mean it can be different in your case, im just talking about how it is for me and other people i know. and btw if you only like feminine men youre still bi since theyre still men at the end of the day
Thank you for your input <3, but yeah what you’re saying makes sense esp the standards point.
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