way do the gods do this

I have a very weird problem that needs some context. I'm a Norse pagan(we believe in the "viking gods" Thor Odin Frey Loki Extra). one of my old friends is(we had a big argument and now we don't talk much). well she reached out to me this today to ask me for help with reaching out to the gods. and I feel like I owe it to the gods to help her, but I really don't want to talk to her anymore, not after what she did to me. so I've helped her a little bit and now her BF is asking me for help making bind runes(a magic system hard to explain to someone who isn't a pagan) to put on Jewry to give to her ahhhhhhhhh why did the gods have to bring use back to get her I was ok with never talking to her or her BF ever again but now I've became part of her religue support group if you will