Romanticizing SH or mental illness (ew)

It confuses me why people fake illnesses. It's not cool,it's concerning. People struggle with that and not everything is about you,hun. Most people I have met with that behavior are usually selfish,talking about themselves or want you to pity them.

Same with people that post there sh on the internet. Sure you can post advice to get help. I don't find that a problem.

But last time I was trying to help someone with that behavior,they just treated me like shit,like I didn't matter. 

The conversation went like this:

"My goals for tonight is to kms"

Of course,as a part of the server,I replied my honesty and advice to them.

"I understand what your feeling. Things get hard sometimes but you need to keep your head high,that's a permanent solution to a temporary problem"

They proceeded to call me an asshole and go fuck myself because I was rude for that. They said my problems with be forever permanent. 

Which is not true,that's a negative mindset.

Truly some people online make me angry. As someone who been to the E.R and shit,I was trying to help but then get ran over like I was just there.

Was I in the wrong? I am wondering greatly. I was trying to be helpful. I thought I was being kind. The owner even said I was being rude. Like this person made so much shit on the server about them sh and etc.