I quit being a girl

I hate being a girl. I hate being flirted with and called cute just because I am one. I hate having to sit a certain way, having to stand a certain way, having to sound a certain way, having to cut my hair a certain way, etc, etc. I hate having to be called a daughter, I don’t wanna be a boy, or non-binary, or agender, or anything. I hate it so much, I don’t want people to think I’m a girl, I want them to think I’m a person. I’m fine with being feminine, and using she/her, but why does that make me a girl? I hate being brought up as a girl, I don’t wanna be brought up as a girl, I wanna be brought up as a person. I don’t know what makes me a girl, or how to undo it. I’ll always be a girl, or thought of as a girl, and that upsets me. Not because I  want to be a boy, but because I still have to be associated with being a girl. I don’t wanna be called a girlfriend or friend that’s a girl, bring me up as your partner, or friend. I’m your partner and friend, not a girl. I don’t know what makes me a girl anymore, I’ve always been a girl, and I’ve always been a person. I don’t know when I’ll start to be brought up as a person before being brought up as a girl.


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Neel

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sounds less like you hate being a girl and more like you hate the stereotypes and expectations that come with it


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I don’t wanna be a girl in any way, not even a girl that isn’t stereotypical or a girl out of gender norms

by Xxscene_pantysniffer06; ; Report

well, at the end of the day, you're still a person, so maybe the goal is finding people who see you that way first, instead of just through labels

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