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Why are people afraid of their partners showing a bit of skin on their socials?
I mean I get it. I really do.
But that's not what I want. Some reason I really want a partner who is sorta cunty and just continues to be their natural selves on social media rather than suppress who they were before getting into a relationship.
Why would a relationship stop you? Insecurities [in the relationship]. Lack of trust. Past trauma. Why let a relationship stop you?
Ugh I hate how most relationships these days are insecure.
I was a party once with friends. We were playing a one of those card games like "cards against humanity", and a card popped up asking something along the lines of "Is it okay if your partner (in this case boyfriends, cus my friends had bfs) posted a shirtless pic on their socials" and I mentioned "What if they want to thirst trap for you?" and someone replied, "Then they would just send it to you privately."—sure of course I understand how valuable it is to receive something that's 'your eyes only', but I think I love/appreciate someone who has a social media presence that shows the way they carry themselves. I guess you could see it in a sense of dominance/confidence 'cause they know (and probably their followers know) that you are their trustable partner or just their overall comfortability and security with self and relationship.
But idk, that's just my preference.
Just be yourselves people. Don't let your insecure partner stop you. I guess you just gotta build that trust. I know easier said than done, but you get what I'm saying.
And I'm not tryna say use it as an advantage, but remember it as safety.
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