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I’m afraid he’ll find this so imma be vague. I don’t like him. I’m close with him (really close) and I’ve noticed Hes kinda a red flag. I can’t end things off with him though cuz I feel like he’ll blackmail me or start shit. I dunno how to say no to him either. Any advice?
UPDATE i dont have to worry about it anymore since he told me he was gay and ghosted me :|
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I was in a similar situation to urs last year ... this guy would always pressure me and shit (MAJOR RED FLAG BASICALLY) and it really stressed me out. My biggest fear during those times was also getting blackmailed. I ended up taking the initiative to basically tell some of my friends about what I was going thru cause I was scared that he would reach out to them and thought it would be best for me to reach out first and explain my situation. Honestly I know you dont want to end things with him but trust me it's probably the best decision to make before things get worse, especially considering that you are already seeing red flags with him. I understand that it is difficult to abruptly just end things, so I'd say put some distance and pull away, gradually (hopefully) this'll lead u guys to naturally fall out, but if things really do escalate ending things is the best way to go about it. Best of luck!