I feel like no one is online anymore. Like, I know that's obviously not true; there are millions of people on the internet as of right now. But especially on here, no one seems to be online anymore, or at least, no one is interacting. I've tried to venture out more recently and try to make more online friends and get to know more people, which isn't difficult; I'm very social and LOVE talking to people, but every time I try to interact with people, it seems to fall on deaf ears. And it should be a lot easier to make friends, especially online. I don't know if I'm just going about it in the wrong ways or if I'm just going crazy lol. I also don't know if people are just nervous to reach out or...? Because I completely understand how that would feel, but yeah!! I think people, especially online, shouldn't be afraid to reach out and try to make new friends. So whatever the reason may be as to why no one is online, just know if you need a friend, I'm one message away!
Let me know what you guys think!!
Don't forget to love yourself, and if you don't, that's okay because I love you!!
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Cat :)
I definetely agree (eventhough I'm also someone who won't reach out in messages first), but to some degree I feel like a year ago it was a whole lot easier to make friends on here than it is now.
yes!!!
by Lunaz0; ; Report
jonie
this website used to be crazy active,, idk what happened! the few people that go out of their way to add me literally dont say anything to me. its like whahwhat was the point?? im currently looking through recent blogs since this place totally feels like a ghost town x_x but nervousness is a total pain so i dont blame anyone for feeling that way
PesteringClown
Lowkey like expected to get atleast 2 comments on some blogs and got none, thought I was just uncool frfr. Yeah idk why ppl don't interact as much I've seen no comments on alot of stuff fr.
NO RIGHT I COMPLETELY GET THAT
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mixmixmixmix
idk if it would be the main cause, but the nonchalant virus is practically unavoidable around young adults and ego makes it satisfactory to treat ppl like sht.
personally i jst keep moving bc its statistically impossible that im the only human being in the world that is willing to chat. sometimes the void does wear one out a little, but it is what it is://
✮ Jay ✮
Yeahhh ppl on here are often nervous to chat and when u do talk to them, they forget to actually ask questions back so the convos die quickly. Usually, for me, the best way to socialize on this site is by responding to blogs and bulletins. I notice that most ppl or my friends on here talk via that. And when people friend request me and I accept, I try to wait a few days to see if they’ll message me and if they don’t I reach out first. Doesn’t guarantee it’ll keep the convo going tho 🤷♀️
Z0mbieTheZ0mbie
Dude omg I had tried to talk to so many people that add me but then they just don't respond of give me one word answers.. LIKE GANG COME ONNNNN WE ARE ONLINE NOT IRL YOU DONT NEED TO BE NONCHALANT LIKE OML.. idk why people add me and then just never actually talk back when I try to say hi
anyways what you said is so real
saffron
Reaching out is hard because I've yet to learn how to actually exist three dimensionally on my own which is why I just say things in response to other people