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Ghosting/ friendship breakups

Ive been talking to this girl for 4 months and i met her 3 times and it's been AMAZING like genuinely so so good and nothing wrong has happened and ive never felt even a weird vibe between us or anything, only for her to ghost me... and when i called and texted she replied with this really rude text so i gave it a couple days... thinking ill get an explanation or an apology or something when i didn't get anything i just removed her on everything... 

i don't understand why she's do this given that i was always so understanding and supportive and present and ive never been anything but nice to her... i keep getting second thoughts of what i did thinking maybe i shouldn't have removed her maybe i should've kept her around... but all my friends think i did the right thing... ive never known her to be rude or avoidant which is what shocked me alot. 

I dont think ive ever been this heartbroken and idk what to do with it... 


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I think distancing yourself from her was the best thing you did. Nobody deserves to be around someone who mistreats you the way she did. If she's really going through a difficult time, that doesn't justify her behavior. Maybe one day she'll explain, maybe not, but I still think you did the right thing. It's difficult, but try not to think about it too much.


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Hey hannah, thank you for your kind words and yeah i think you're right. Our brains are always wired to think about the 'why' but i guess the intensity of that thought fades away with time as well.

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