Explaining why women hate feminine men (and the reason i like them)

This is gonna be one of those blogs that I would put in a "Psychology" category if we had one. 

This came out as a shocker to me, when I first learned about it, but aparently a lot of women hate men who act or look fem, and the reason is not mainly homophobia, but something else, in my opinion. I knew people were homophobic and idk hated anything out of the norm, not dressing like your gender, not acting like your gender, shit like that. I thought most women only found it silly, or weird that boys might act fem, but ignore it and not pay it much thought. But then i saw online just how much random women DISPISED the idea of a man being like that. So why does this happen? 

Well, everyone has their identity, that makes them who they are, right? And they protect that. If anything or anyone might threaten that idea, they freak out and panic. Its why men hate when women do or like anything "masculine". Because if a woman can be like them, then what are they? Whats their unique identity as men then? Thats the same with women too. If a man can be as pretty as a woman, then whats your special thing? What makes you a women, if anything you do can be done by a man too? Thats how they think. They are feeling threatend that men can be as feminine as them, so now their identity doesn't belong to them only, and it freaks them out. Especially if they're gay feminine men, they treat them as competition. 

And I think this is also the reason why I like feminine men as much as I do. Because being feminine was never part of my identity, I dont mind when someone does it, in fact i love feminine people. I never wanted to be perceived as pretty or hot like a woman would be. I don't want to be attractive because I just happen to have boobs on my chest, and I like when someone thinks I look good, but not when its in a feminine way. Because im not conventionally attractive, right? I meet and see everyday girls that are prettier than me. I have a more masculine face and my voice is deeper than most girls. And I dont mind tbh, I used to mind it, but now I dont. I hate that im considered "ugly" for being a girl and not being feminine, but I didn't want that in the first place. If I can be attractive to someone BECAUSE im masculine, then thats enough for me (bcs TBH I would make a pretty hot boy, if I was one). So yea, thats why to me, a feminine guy was never a problem, actually i prefer it that way. I want boys to be prettier than me. Even if im wearing a dress and make-up and all that, I still want a boy to look more feminine than me, for me it feels reassuring. Not only because I like anyone feminine in general, but if I can just be excused, if I can just be me, and seeing boys more feminine than me and I can say "You are so good at this, I suck at being feminine" then thats enough for me. Thats more than good, actually. 

Anyway, what do u guys think abt this? 

Dont judge anyone for who they are. And if you feel unconfortable around someone, ask yourself why.