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Hey chat it’s been a lil while but since I have some time i wanted to write abt something I’ve been really thinking abt.
I feel like social media kill romance I say this because we are on social media so much that the videos we consume start to shift our opinion on what romance is. I feel like most of the time it gives you unrealistic expectations of what romance will be beacuse for 1 what you are seeing is all threw a screen and they are 9/10 just showing the high points of there relationship because most people would never post them self arguing with there significant other so what you see is all the highs in the relationships and not the lows and when you get to the lows your now suprised.
Social media can also make us feel like we have tons and tons of options even tho that is far from the truth. Dating apps,Dm’s and on top of that people you meet in real life make it feel like there are so many to choose from. Social media when there is even the smallest problem you are quick to go onto the next instead of try to strengthen the bond with another person because you feel like there is better out there. When in reality if you really like that person you should really just try and work things out if you believe you can.
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-Star
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I also hate how people can't be happy for others, like so many videos of couples have comments such as "hope y'all break up" or "what am i doing wrong", etc. I get it can be funny or said jokingly if it's like a friend of them, but if not why are u hating on some random strangers on the internet? just let people be happy. social media might be killing romance, but these people with their miserable takes aren't helping either
first of matching pfps omg and literally yea why would you say that if your not friends with the person that’s really werid tbh and says a lot abt the person commenting it
by SillyStarGurl; ; Report
Yus
My biggest gripe with relationship stuff on socials is the 'rules' that get created and all the buzzwords. Like omg I couldnt talk to some online friends or even my own ex without the mention of like 'ohhh its just the honeymoon phase blablabla' and '3 month rule you better wait' like god can we be for real?? And then people come up with dumb ass tests that really tell nothing about a person to dictate whether they love you or not. People have treated it like a template you gotta follow when love is the most complex thing because of how every single relationship is different, but they try to push it into these boxes and try to tick boxes which is just destructive.
I completely agree and it is sooooo anoying like yes I get what the honeymoon phase and all the other words like I get what they mean but why are you planning your whole relationship around them and like you said "People have treated it like a template you gotta follow" and its really sad to say but its so true. any other topics you want me to to talk abt???
by SillyStarGurl; ; Report
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i wish my romcoms and doujins were real...
Me too but even they are unrealistic I feel like you should find the specific characteristics you like and try to find someone like that and remember that romcoms are unrealistic (Imnot so sure abt doujins but you would like to tell me abt them I would love to hear it ) but you will find someone that makes you happy one day!! Also thank you for commenting is there anything you specific you want me to talk abt????
by SillyStarGurl; ; Report
i understand that romcoms are unrealistic, for good i guess
doujinshi or just doujins is japanese term for anything that is self-published, you see where this is going... scenarios can get pretty crazy
maybe you can talk about how social media in general is addictive including spacehey, if anything i am probably became more addicted to social media than ever
by ,.•°‰M€B♪GB@££$‰°•.,; ; Report
theunrealhelin
i really wish it was still normal to talk to someone irl you find interesting instead of trying to find their socials or just start online relationships. that’s why a lot of teens romanticise old romance even if it wasn’t that great
Yeah thats true like you said "old romance" with that there wasnt any social so you had to go up to the person then and there if you didnt know them and its a little sad people dont really do it anymore but I understand why. But it is sad to think how that prob wont happen any more.thank you for commenting any other topics you want me to to talk abt???
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