A Big-Sister History Lesson, With Lip Gloss On
Now listen… I might be a little late to the party, but from the end of 2025 into the beginning of 2026, something shifted—and if you’ve been paying attention, you felt it too.
My feed?
Filled with beautiful voices.
Black voices.
Brown voices.
Asian voices.
People finally saying the things everyone’s known their entire lives but were taught to swallow quietly.
And as someone who exists at the intersection—mixed, expressive, and unapologetically rooted in Black identity—I am loving every second of it. Please. Keep talking. Keep unpacking. Keep naming what’s always been there.
Recently, I came across a video from one of my Asian sisters that caused… waves. The topic? K-pop and its influences. And honestly? When she said that much of K-pop is deeply influenced by Black music and culture, I laughed—not because it was funny, but because it was obvious.
Like… babes. That’s not a hot take. That’s history.
If your immediate reaction is, “No, it’s all original,” I gently invite you—lip gloss in hand—to open a history book and circle back after. Music doesn’t exist in a vacuum. It never has.
We’ve seen this before. Long before today’s charts. There were K-pop tracks that mirrored entire songs from groups like Cypress Hill almost beat for beat. There were Asian girl groups trained specifically to perform swing music because that sound had already proven successful—because it came from Black American roots.
And here’s where the conversation gets… interesting.
When Black artists wear grills, embrace hip-hop fashion, or move with the swagger that comes from our culture, we’re labeled dangerous. Ghetto. Tacky.
But when your favorite K-pop idols do the same thing? Suddenly it’s innovative. Edgy. Art.
Same aesthetics.
Same sound.
Very different reactions.
And that disconnect is what people are finally calling out.
Now let me be very clear—because nuance matters. As a mixed woman who identifies primarily as Black, I can tell you this: most of us are not demanding footnotes, citations, or a roll call of who inspired who. That’s not the heart of it.
What we are asking for is respect.
That means:
- Stop using the N-word like it’s a costume you can put on and take off.
- Stop pretending you don’t understand the weight of that word.
- Stop acting shocked when there are consequences—because words don’t exist without context or history.
And let’s not forget something important: we share the same oppressor. That part seems to get lost a little too often. Division only benefits the people who’ve always benefited.
Honestly? I’ve spent years wondering why my love for K-pop raised eyebrows in parts of my Black community. And then it clicked.
The reason K-pop felt so familiar to me—so comforting, so exciting—is because I was hearing echoes of my own culture. Black rhythm. Black storytelling. Black musical foundations—reimagined through a different lens.
In a strange way, it felt like listening to a parallel universe version of music I already loved.
And that realization doesn’t make me love K-pop less.
It makes me love Black culture more—and ask for the acknowledgment it deserves.
So no accusations here. No pitchforks. Just a well-dressed history lesson from your Big Sister who wants us all to grow, learn, and maybe—just maybe—stop pretending the purple elephant isn’t standing right there in the room.
Now… discuss. 💜✨
Check These Beautiful Voices Take on the topic and the where my inspo came from! 💜💋👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
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