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Hi!! This is my first blog so I dunno lolz!! But just recently I've been thinking and I came to a thought that I'm just kind of stuck on. Which to me was why do people choose to make others mad & be mean over spreading postivity & kindness? I mean when you think about it, it sounds simple, but like, I haven't been able to find an actual answer, all I can think of is "some people are just mean-spirited"! Which that isn't enough for me honestly. And I mean like, when someone wears an outfit that makes them happy, that doesn't really hurt anyone, instead of appreciating it, some people make fun of them. Or when people feel are trying comfortable in their bodies, but it's hard because they have old sh scars, or are over/underweight, or have a lot of acne, etc... some people just make them feel even worse. Or maybe even when someone is saying something cute and sweet and positive that makes you feel all bubbly and silly, but someone ruins the mood by saying something really mean. And sometimes they really mean it, or other times they are like- "Hah! Ragebait! You fell for the bait!" Yeah.. so what? You know what? Why are you even trying to make people mad in the first place? I mean-- making others happy is SO much easier and better for your mental health than making people mad! What do you even get out of being mean besides a false sense of victory? I really wish everyone was nice to everybody. I hate gossip. I hate bullying. I hate all of it!! Things like that take lives. Because of bullying, someones child will never return home. Someone out lost their best friend in the WHOLE WIDE WORLD because evil people decided that they just.. couldn't be nice? Being nice is free. So why do some people just refuse to choose kindness? Thanks for listening! Elliott out! <3
Why Do People Choose To Make Others Mad Over Choosing Kindness
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badassatron bumblebee
a multitude of reasons!
> why do people choose to make others mad & be mean over spreading postivity & kindness?
personality disorders like aspd or npd make it hard for others to empathize with people, and because of npd’s
inflated ego they may tend to justify their reasons of hurting others because they’re always in the right, or maybe aspd’s disregard for social norms/rights
some people tend to believe in egoism, where because being egocentric is natural; it’s not bad to be mean to others. or some are cynical; that love does not truly exist because people always do it for their own benefit… so why should they pursue in fake ideals? and that, things like sympathy and compassion are concepts made by weak people that need a moral compass to guide themselves
or, some may be a little too invested in stoicism and believe that people’s feelings are their responsibility. that whatever they say holds no responsibility over them because it is said person’s choice to choose whether it gets to them or not, and so, those who are offended only did it to themselves
some people were raised by people like this and think that acting immoral is normal, or good, even!
some people are bitter, that because people. have hurt them their bullies deserve to be hurt back
some people are moral nihilsts. that because we have no purpose, anything “bad” or “good” is anything that is against/follows our purpose. but again, we lack one; so nothing is good or bad
some are subjectivists, that anything good or bad are simply things that feel bad or good to us and fluctuate depending on person to person
some enjoy seeing people in pain…, they just do
ty!! :)
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