γ€€π“΅γ€€β—Ÿγ€€How to get friends ? (will explain it to you and give advices)

Hi my pretty angels, today is a new day !!

Introduction ::

My name is Eros, i usually give tips or talk about differents subjects, for the next subject feel free to ask in the comment or if you have any questions i'm here. So feel free to interact with me. I hope you have a good day/night, now let's start.Β 


I always put my posts with differents sections so you can choose wathever you want to read.Β 

I) Think about yourself ::

To make friends you need to know yourself : things you like or hate, your passions, how you react to situations. If you know yourself, you will be able to interact with anyone without changing who you are.Β It's really important.Β 

DONT CHANGE FOR SOMEONE !!! You are unique and you shouldn't change completly for friends.

II) Conversations ::

Begin with something simple and natural, ideally connected to the situation you’re both in, because shared context makes things feel less forced. A genuine observation, a light question, or a friendly comment can open the door without pressure. Focus on curiosity rather than trying to impress; people respond well when they feel seen and listened to.

So, when you don't know what to say after a "hi, hru, what are you doing" ask about their passions or compliment them. It can work to keep going with the conversation !!Β 

III) Stay postive ::

Friendship takes time, it's about long conversations and moment together. If you start to talk about dark things with the person from the beginning you can scare her or tell them something like "i really want to have friend".

Don't show that you want friend because it's like you are saying "i just want random people to be friends with me not necessary you" and it will end the situation between both.Β 

IV) Don't wait for friendship, go find them ::

Alot of people just wait that someday someone will talk to them but it's not working like this.

Put yourself in social spaces.

Intentionally choosing environments where interaction can happen naturally, rather than waiting for friendships to come to you. Start by identifying places that align with your interests or goals, because shared activities make connection easier. This could be a sports team, a gym class, a language course, a book club, volunteering, professional events, or even online communities.Β 

The key is consistency;showing up regularly allows familiarity to build, which is essential for friendship. When people see you often, conversations feel less awkward over time and trust develops more naturally. Don’t focus on meeting β€œthe right people” immediately; instead, focus on being present, participating, and engaging little by little. Even quiet involvement counts, because simply being there increases your chances of forming genuine connections.

V) Recap of the process ::

  1. Be open and approachable: Small things like a smile, relaxed body language, and eye contact make others feel comfortable starting or continuing a conversation with you.

  2. Put yourself in social spaces: Friends rarely appear by chance. Join clubs, classes, events, online communities, or activities where people share your interests.

  3. Start conversations consistently: You don’t need perfect words. Simple greetings, questions, or comments are enough. The key is practice, not perfection.

  4. Show genuine interest: Listen more than you talk, ask follow-up questions, and remember small details about people. Feeling understood builds connection.

  5. Be reliable and kind: Show up when you say you will, respect boundaries, and be supportive. Trust grows through consistent behavior.

  6. Accept differences and imperfections: Not everyone will click with you, and that’s normal. Focus on mutual respect rather than forcing closeness.

  7. Take initiative: Invite people to do simple things ; coffee, a walk, studying together, or sharing an activity. Many friendships start because someone made the first move.

  8. Be patient with the process: Friendships take time to develop. Stay consistent, be yourself, and allow connections to grow naturally.


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