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I might have a problem that will stunt my growth as a productive member of society….I am already what you consider “chronically online” which I don’t like, but IT IS SO HARD TO INTERACT IRL OR ONLINE FOR ME. I get so nervous texting new people, and I get so nervous saying hi to strangers . CHAT AM I COOKED? People always say I make friends easily and hear “you’re such a flash and close friend! ^^” but I genuinely have a panic attack everything time I have to interact and make a decision. I really don’t know what to do!! I want to make new friends but just don’t know how :(. I overthink every message hoping I don’t t sound weird. I swear I am so cool to talk to but I just don’t know how to start the friendship to prove I am cool!!!! However the bigger problem is that my brain has an assertive personality, I like to make the first move in everything , YET MY BRAIN ALSO IS TOO AFRAID TO DO ANYTHING. so I end up just standing there, dissociating 🧍♀️. People who are extroverted, please tell me how you do it! Lol
IT IS SO HARD TO TALK TO ANYONE ONLINE OR IRL, WHY
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lia
hey! kinda got the same problem but it’s not really as bad for me, like sorta leaning towards extrovert. honestly, there is no need to “prove” your coolness to some people, think of it more like a process. generally, most people you meet might just not be compatible as a friend to you, that’s why it might feel like your just there, or dissociating, like a floater friend in a way. for me personally, with most of my friends we kinda just start talking and click in a way. you really just have to meet the right people and not force yourself to associate with people you yourself think might be cool. (sorry this is a lot to read and you don’t have to and i might just be assuming quite a bit of stuff about you but i wish you the best:))”
Oh also most people on here have that overthinking every message thing too, so honestly just dont think about it! life goes on
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Thx!! This is really helpful ^^
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