Does anyone know how to actually mature themselves

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I think there's no good way to mature yourself. Why? Mainly because, at least in my opinion, becoming mature and growing up comes from experience, and that's something you can't really rush in any way.
Growing mature is a sum of things that happened, for me, a lot of my beliefs were verified by the financial status of my family, I've grown to understand that some (especially political) ideas are either very utopian or egocentric. Another thing was the death of family members, illnesses and other not so fun events, that have completely changed my view on other people and time I spend with them. I think that pretty much sums up why maturing isn't something you can do, but more a result of what happened to you.
Still, there are things you can do that could seem like going towards becoming more "grown-up", like critically reevaluating your past self, while accepting that there are things you cannot change about yourself. Developing a healthy mindset is probably the best thing you can do at the moment, and remember, be mature enough for yourself, not others.

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be true to yourself!!! sometimes growing up just constantly feels like a losing game, youre always going to regret something. however, you learn and mature with each experience you have! with letting yourself live freely now, youll mature later ε(*´･ω･)з

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If you force it, it will make you unhappy in the end.
Let it happen naturally. You have absolutely matured, you probably don't notice it. You're not the same person you were last year. And next year you will also not be the same person.

In a few years you'll look back and notice, you're not the same person anymore.

Maturing takes time and you won't notice much, till time has passed or you had a major event directly influence something.

You know how each day feels the same, but then you look back and realize how much has changed over the years? It's the same with maturing.

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Hii, I think forcing yourself to grow up isn’t a good thing. I totally get wanting to belong and fit in, but I regret that I did it (and that I’m still doing it) Changing yourself just to please others only overwhelms you in the end and makes you doubt yourself. Live day by day, do what feels right for you, and ignore the others. It’s hard, but at least you stayed true to yourself <33

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