Hate swag gap relationships

Ok ok I know people can love eachother no matter how they look like sometimes BUT I'm done dating people who don't put any effort in. As an alt girly it's just disappointing and embarrassing bringing a guy to goth party and he pulls up in jeans and a hoodie. And it's skinny jeans but they are blue and not styled in cool emo way. And the hoodie is like not cool at all. I'm alternative I'm enjoying looking different challenging the standards. Shocking people on the streets... I want a partner who enjoys that as well. 

That's it

Xoxo Luxiren <3