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Why are men so stupid? Im giving obvious signs of attraction and he is absolutely clueless! Please help. XOXO Lulu
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Why are men so stupid? Im giving obvious signs of attraction and he is absolutely clueless! Please help. XOXO Lulu
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Chompy
Creo que a veces a los hombres nos deben de decir las cosas directamente y no porque nos guste, si no porque en efecto somos tontos y no siempre entendemos las indirectas jajaja
M1C4H
We do the same and girls don't get it either. Are you guys ignoring us or actually not understanding?
Vanez!
Really sorry to tell u dis but he’s most likely playing dumb bc he doesn’t like u :c
pepperisfrosty
Maybe he's just not interested in you
⤷ ゛SceneNoob ˎˊ˗
Fair, but maybe he’s sly;) dudes sometimes act clueless even if they know the signs, because they want U to be upfront lulu XD
lowkroberto
Maybe be straight up and tell the dude?
garnilandline
maybe cause he wants people to be upfront about it instead of giving signs. me no know
Sel-
Literally, before leaving school on the last day, I gave him a gift, and inside it there was a letter where I told him everything I needed to say. And do you know what the idiot told me? "¿Seriously? ¿So you want me to give you two gifts for your birthday?" He literally thought I was joking with him. And then my friend scolded me for not waiting for her so she could see me confess
And I don’t even know how he came to the conclusion that I wanted two gifts for my birthday
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BROOO I FEEL SOOO BADDD 4 UUU, I would actually cry cuz i feel like having a crush is more fun then actually dating them though.
Atp maybe you should just confess or smth cuz i don't think he can take a hint
by C@pt@!n_C@V!Ar; ; Report
Leticia
Imagine being a men, ew
Dont want to hate but girl, ITS NOT THE SUBJECT
by ☺will☻; ; Report
DenDen !
omgg this is so for reall !! men never get hints !!
kaz
something that helps is using your words
Reζreset Fallen
It's because women do exactly the same thing when they're interested as when they're not interested, generally. They may be genuinely interested, but when they are not, they will also
seem genuine because they're doing it for attention, or do it to escape an uncomfortable situation.
Curts Corner Of Curiosities YouTube Channel
Stop playing games and be direct
We as dudes have to constantly try to interpret whether you're putting off signs or not. We don't want to have to interpret a million signs or settlements that you're putting off to try to figure out if you like us or not. We do not generally go by vague guidelines because men are constantly under criticism if we don't make the right move, it can look totally bad and make us look dumb, creepy ECT because of how society expects us to react and how easy it is for us to get in trouble in things of that realm. Men are under far more scrutiny from the law than women this is why we have to be certain and we can't make half ass guesses because there's real world repussions to giving a woman the wrong answer
by Curts Corner Of Curiosities YouTube Channel; ; Report
Meant to say real world repercussions if we don't act or behave a certain way that society expects or if a woman misinterprets it completely as to what we're saying we can get in trouble and that's why men are so careful to not take action until we know 100% whether the woman likes us or not.
by Curts Corner Of Curiosities YouTube Channel; ; Report
Yep, and I also addressed this above.
by Reζreset Fallen; ; Report
Milodescorpion._.^_^
It's not that we men don't realize it, it's that we do realize it, we just tend to overthink the subtle hints so much that in the end we don't know whether to tell her how we feel or not. Because if we misinterpret what he said, that whole friendship could fall apart. Just be direct
This. I thought it was just being autistic or bad social skills i just don't like people hinting or not saying things directly it confuses the fuck out of me and makes me anxious to no end.
by 𝕸𝖎𝖐𝖊𝖞 𝕽𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖓𝖌𝖊; ; Report
Theo 🇩🇪 🇪🇺
Don't give signs. Just be direct.
Ainsley Drake
From the position of being one of those, I feel like we’re far more comfortable with responding to direct expressions of interest over people hinting interest. There are a lot of reasons for this - mostly it’s fear of rejection or misreading whet a person is trying to say. I think people should be less subtle and a lot more earnest about what they want from people (not throwing shade at you, just recommend that you try to be more direct).
ashy
maybe just tell him
I don’t want to rush it but i might have to
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